After 30 years of clinical research and treatment of patients with unhealthy love lives, Dr. Thomas Jordan discovered that most people aren't actually in control of their own love lives. Why? Because most people don't know what they've learned about love relationships. In Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life, you'll learn how to identify what you've learned about love relationships and unlearn what was unhealthy, resulting in real―and lasting―improvements in your love life.

Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life by Thomas Jordan, Ph.D. was written as a guidebook for people who are not in control of their love lives. Readers who are experiencing repeating love life disappointments and/or resigned to living without love in their lives, will find this book especially illuminating and thought-provoking. Dr. Thomas Jordan, a New York City psychologist/psychoanalyst, has been studying the psychological ability to form and sustain a healthy love relationship, and treating the ways people unwittingly repeat love life disappointments learned from the unhealthy relationship experiences they've had in their lives. Learn to Love explains how and what we learn about love relationships, and describes a highly effective method of stopping the cycle of repeating love life disappointments and/or resignation, when what we've learned was unhealthy. Dr. Jordan's method has helped many of his patients make improvements in their love lives, as well as improvements in his own love life.

Dr. Thomas Jordan is a clinical psychologist and psychoanalyst in private practice in New York City. He is a graduate of New York University's Postdoctoral Program in Psychoanalysis, Clinical Associate Professor of Psychology and a faculty member of the post-doctoral program. Dr. Jordan is the creator of the Healthy Love Life Seminar, author of "Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life," "Healthy Love Relationship" and "Individuation in Contemporary Psychoanalysis." Dr. Jordan specializes in the treatment of repetitive love life problems and founded the Love Life Learning Center website. He is in a group practice with his wife, Victoria Jordan LCSW an experienced psychotherapist and couple therapist. Dr. Jordan has been studying and treating unhealthy love lives for more than 30 years.