About the author
Ryan Joseph Kopyar, Professional Counselor Associate, LMHCA, RCC, CPT & CSN—an internationally licensed counselor, men's vulnerability coach and acclaimed author—is a transformational figure in the fields of psychology and personal development. From his own tragic and tumultuous past, Ryan emerged as a beacon of hope for those seeking personal growth and emotional healing.
Ryan has authored multiple books, including "Unlock The Power of Your Mind" (2019) and "Big Boys Do Cry" (2024), which reflect his deep understanding of human psychology and his commitment to helping individuals navigate their emotions. He has presented to prestigious organizations like the RCMP in Winnipeg, Canada, and has grown his counseling practice from zero to six figures in just one year.
With a unique blend of intense passion, an energizing persona, and a deep connection with his audience, Ryan aims to inspire men on their healing journey. His goal is to help individuals reconnect with their hearts and learn healthy, effective ways of communication within their families. Ryan's impact is felt worldwide as he continues to empower individuals to embrace vulnerability and transform their lives.
In his newest book, "Big Boys Do Cry: A Man's Guide to Navigating Emotions and Showing Up More Vulnerable in Relationships," Ryan provides guidelines and tactical skills men can use for better navigating emotions and expressing wants and needs in a healthy and effective way.
"It's time to break the narrative about 'men not being good communicators' in relationships…or in general," Ryan says.
Ryan reveals the profound strength men in particular can find in tears—a revelation that took his almost three decades to embrace after his own brush with substances, the law and a horrifically tragic rape/homicide incident that took the life of both his mother and unborn (8 gestational month) sister. "There is power—and purpose—in pain. When I gave myself permission to cry, my life changed," Ryan notes.
Today, Ryan's guidance for other men is a stepping stone toward their own emotional freedom He helps men worldwide to defy societal norms, unabashedly cry, and embark on a path to deeper connections and richer, more vulnerable relationships. His tireless work reshapes false narratives: tears are not a sign of weakness but rather a catalyst for transformative strength.
Other of Ryan's life-changing work includes his "Reconnect to Your Greatness" program, which teaches people how to remove the obstacles preventing them from realizing the happy and fulfilled life they want to live.