The Gentleman’s Divorce Survival Guide

Written for men going through a divorce. There are many challenges that men face when going through the divorce process that need to be recognized and understood - particularly the part of men that is wired to "win," and how that desire gets in the way.

Written for men going through a divorce. There are many challenges that men face when going through the divorce process that need to be recognized and understood - particularly the part of men that is wired to "win." That desire to win compounded by the desire for fairness is at the root of many long drawn out divorces. This only makes the attorneys more money and delays the ultimate goal, of getting through the process and on to the next phase of life. This book will help you be aware of some of the emotions that will come up and give suggestions on what to do and what not to do with those emotions.

John Reilly is a psychotherapist in private practice in Ridgewood, NJ, and the Executive Director/Partner of Sage Day Schools, where he also served as the clinical director from 1998 to 2005. He is a licensed clinical social worker, a certified child and adolescent psychotherapist therapist and a certified psychoanalyst; one specialty is helping individuals through transition periods in life, such as divorce. John earned a BA in psychology from Montclair State University and his MSW from Yeshiva University. He is happily remarried, and is the father of two boys and a stepdaughter and stepson. He works and lives in northern New Jersey.