La Cherie passionately journey's readers through her personal experiences with love, pain, fear, and life in a way that impresses readers to take a look into their own behaviors.
Have you ever fallen for someone you knew was wrong for you? Not once or twice, but, over and over again— a perpetual cycle that you just could not seem to break? What made you stay with them? Or more importantly, if you left—what drove you to go back?
I took the time to answer these questions and more in my inspirational book, entitled: Emotionally Unstable (Growing up without my Daddy).
Wrong Luv and I went too far. My life was hurting in a vulnerable way. I just needed him to rescue me from the pain I was carrying inside. My gut instincts told me to walk away, but my desperation for love made me stay. What started out as just another boyfriend, became the realization of a potentially abusive relationship. He had a violent side—a mean streak, with just enough charm to get what he wanted.
Unfortunately, I gravitated to his unruly behavior— but didn’t know why—until the truth about my childhood resurfaced. His violent temper tantrums felt familiar to me, but rather than search for something better, I tried to make it work. Waiting for his acceptance, attention, affection, protection, and admiration started breaking down my self-esteem.
Did staying with wrong luv, mean I should lose me?
Time was ticking, a decision had to be made. God offered me a journey of healing; I agreed, but didn’t know it included the return of three ex-teenage boyfriends. Facing the truth about each one of them was eye-opening, as, they were linked to my pain, and the truth about being Emotionally Unstable: growing up without my daddy.
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