About the Author

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Steve Long was born Steven Joseph Longo on September 18, 1955, making him a Baby Boomer. The grandson of Sicilian immigrants, he grew up in a lively and devout Catholic extended family in Buffalo, New York. After struggling at school and with neighborhood bullies, he eventually overcame those challenges and found his identity and purpose in high school and college—a passion for history and becoming an educator. Though he chose to marry and raise a child at the young age of 20, he eventually pursued and obtained a bachelor's degree in history with honors and embarked on a 32-year career as a secondary school history and social studies teacher. He taught in poor, middle-class, and affluent, rural, urban, and suburban communities in South Carolina, New York, and Texas. A lifelong learner with a fervent desire to inspire others toward becoming the same, he has tried to impart that enthusiasm to his students, family members, and friends with a flair for acting and theater. He's visited a dozen different places in Europe, but the pinnacle of his travels was when he became the first and only descendant of his ancestors who left Sicily at the turn of the 20th-c-never to return, to visit their homeland. He has also been a drummer since about age 5, following in the footsteps of his father, former big-band-era drummer Frank A. Longo, Jr. He's the proud father of Stephen Long, who trained as a violinist and taught himself guitar, and for 10 years he played in a band called The Longshots with him, covering classic rock and blues. His other hobby is building scale models—aircraft, ships, figures, armor, spacecraft, and sci-fi models—which he has done since about age 10. He's skydived and water skied- once one time only. He's also a lifelong Buffalo Bills fan, still waiting for them to finally win the Super Bowl. Though he's skydived, attempted water skiing, and ridden a horse, he still wants to learn how to Jitterbug before he dies- despite his age.

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NEW EDITORIAL REVIEW, FEBRUARY 27, 2025: 

"Steven Joseph Long’s Compliments of Pet Milk: A Boomer's Odyssey Across the Millennium Divide is a sprawling memoir that is both deeply personal and historically reflective. Long, a self-described “human dinosaur,” recounts his life growing up in post-war America, navigating family, education, love, loss, and an evolving world that has seemingly left his generation behind. Through anecdotes and reflections, he documents his journey from a curious child enamored with dinosaurs to a seasoned historian, teacher, and observer of a society that has shifted in ways he both admires and critiques.

One of the book’s strongest elements is its introspection. Long doesn’t just recount his life events; he interrogates them. The introduction alone sets the tone with a striking metaphor comparing his generation to dinosaurs, relics of a different age, facing extinction. The scene where he first encounters a book about dinosaurs in a library as a young boy is incredibly poignant. His realization that there existed an entire world before him, unfathomably ancient and unmentioned by the adults around him, serves as an awakening, an entry point to his lifelong passion for learning. This kind of raw curiosity and wonder resonated with me.

Long delivers his critiques of younger generations with unfiltered honesty and a sharp wit, playfully bemoaning their dwindling curiosity, reliance on technology, and ever-shrinking attention spans. And while his observations hit close to home, they’re delivered with a flair that makes them as entertaining as they are thought-provoking. His claim that “most of them have never been inside a physical library, can’t write in cursive, and seem to have the attention span of a rock” is less a bitter complaint and more the exasperated musings of someone watching the world change at lightning speed.

What makes this memoir shine, however, is its emotional depth. Long shares intensely personal stories, such as the loss of his second wife, Linda, and the bittersweet evolution of his relationships over time. His descriptions of fatherhood, especially the anxieties and triumphs of raising a child while navigating his own uncertainties, feel incredibly real and heartfelt. The chapter where he describes playing in a band with his son is especially touching- it’s a moment of connection that transcends generational differences and shows that, despite his frustrations with modern times, love and human connection remain timeless.

Compliments of Pet Milk: A Boomer's Odyssey Across the Millennium Divide is a fascinating, if at times meandering, reflection on life, history, and change. It’s a book best suited for those who enjoy memoirs with a strong historical consciousness, especially readers who themselves have lived through the cultural shifts Long describes. While younger readers might bristle at some of his more critical takes, there is still plenty of wisdom and humor to be found within these pages. If you’re a Baby Boomer looking to reminisce, a Gen Xer who enjoys reflecting on the past, or even a Millennial or Gen Z reader with a curiosity for how the world once was, this book is worth your time."

Priscilla Evans,

Managing Editor, Literary Titan

Rating: 5 Stars

FIRST EDITORIAL REVIEW, JANUARY 15, 2025:

"Turning a revelatory lens on the contexts, choices, and seminal moments that defined his life, and an entire generation, Compliments of Pet Milk: A Boomer's Odyssey Across the Millennium Divide by Steven J. Long is a thoughtful reflection on mod

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