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Book details
  • Genre:RELIGION
  • SubGenre:Christian Living / Inspirational
  • Language:English
  • Pages:177
  • eBook ISBN:9780692390740

Question Mark

Why the Church Welcomes Bullies and How to Stop It

by Jim Henderson and Doug Murren

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Overview
In the wake of Mark Driscoll’s very public removal from the pulpit, the obvious question arises, “How did such an abusive and unethical person ascend to his a position of influence in the church in the first place?” Question Mark looks beyond the high-profile front men to examine the culture in the church that makes room for and even cultivates the bullies who assume leadership roles.
Description
While it may be tempting to ask how did such a man convince people to follow him, the more telling answers will come from asking what is going on in churches that allows men like him to come into and retain power. This may sound like a subtle distinction, but with the first question, the focus is on the man, and with the second, the focus is on the system. Mark Driscoll is not an anomaly. Men and women like him have been consuming power and inflicting spiritual abuse on believers since the beginning of the church. So, ask yourself these questions: • How did the church become a haven for religious bullies—leaders whose psychological profile is more like that of a gang leader than a pastor? • How are we inadvertently putting out a “welcome mat” to these people? • What are the spiritual genetic markers in our systems that “predispose” us to miss the warning signs and minimize character flaws we swore we’d never accept in a leader? The purpose of Question Mark is to shed light on the culture of the church that lends itself, not only to cultivating these types of leaders, but creates a dysfunctional desire in its body for this kind of leadership. There are three primary goals for this book: 1) to help readers identify the tendency toward spiritual pride that creates the proper environment for bullies to thrive; 2) to provide the tools they need to spot bullies early on; 3) to help churches grow past the spiritual adolescence bullies depend on. The hope is that the insights and experience poured into this book can help avoid the pain of spiritual abuse and the distraction from what believers and seekers are supposed to get from participating in a faith community. Question Mark exists to add to and illuminate the conversation surrounding religious bullies so positive change can come out of the history of wounds too many have experienced in church.
About the author
Jim Henderson - USA TODAY describes Jim this way “Henderson has blazed a new path as an innovator, author, church-evaluator, self-professed subversive, and leader in the creation of new ways to be publicly and persuasively Christian in the 21st century” Following twenty-five years working as a pastor Jim formed Off The Map, an organization that produced live events designed to help people recover the lost art of being unusually interested in others, especially outsiders. Jim is a speaker, author, and producer. His most subversive act to date was buying an Atheists soul on eBay. On the heels of that project he hired another Atheist (Matt Casper) to attend church services with him and write reviews. They recount their experiences in their best seller Jim and Casper Go To Church. Jim’s company Jim Henderson Presents produces live events and television projects that look at the important and fascinating role religious spirituality plays in our lives. Jim has written six books, holds a Doctorate in Transformational Leadership and has been featured in The Wall Street Journal, USA Today, Fox News and on This American Life with Ira Glass.