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Book details
  • Genre:BODY, MIND & SPIRIT
  • SubGenre:Healing / General
  • Language:English
  • Pages:350
  • eBook ISBN:9798350991208

It's Okay to Not be Okay

by Mary Bornhoft

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Overview
In a heartwarming tale set in the quaint town of Willow Creek, a young teacher named Lily navigates her own emotional struggles following the loss of her beloved grandmother. As she grapples with her grief, Lily discovers the profound healing power of vulnerability and connection through her interactions with her students. By introducing "Feelings Fridays," a weekly circle where her students can openly share their fears and aspirations, she fosters a supportive community that encourages emotional honesty. Together, they explore themes of resilience, creativity, and love, culminating in a collaborative poetry anthology that celebrates their shared journeys. Through laughter, tears, and shared artistic expression, Lily and her students learn that it's okay to not be okay, ultimately finding strength in their beautifully messy lives.
Description
In the charming town of Willow Creek, renowned for its picturesque landscapes and tight-knit community, a young teacher named Lily faces an internal battle after the loss of her beloved grandmother, who had always been her guiding light. Once a beacon of optimism, Lily now finds herself overwhelmed by grief and the pressures of maintaining a facade of happiness for her friends, family, and students. Feeling increasingly isolated, she struggles to cope with the deep-seated emotions threatening to consume her. In the middle of this emotional turmoil, an innocent question from one of her students, the gentle-hearted Samuel, serves as a catalyst for change: "Miss Lily, are you okay? You look sad." This poignant moment prompts Lily to confront her feelings and recognize that true strength lies not in hiding her pain but in embracing vulnerability. Inspired by the need for connection and understanding, she introduces "Feelings Fridays," a weekly gathering where her students can openly express their thoughts and feelings. As the weeks pass, these sessions become vital to the growth of both Lily and her students. Children share their anxieties, joys, and struggles, creating a safe space for mutual support and empathy. They collaborate on creative projects, such as an anthology of poetry that encapsulates their journeys, transforming their feelings into art. Through this shared experience, they learn the importance of emotional expression, resilience, and the healing power of community. As Lily guides her students through their artistic endeavors, she begins to heal herself, allowing the love and support of her classroom to provide the strength she needs to process her grief. Together, they explore themes of love, loss, friendship, and the complexities of growing up, creating memorable moments filled with laughter and introspection. The culmination of their efforts materializes in a vibrant poetry anthology, celebrating the diverse voices of the children and the powerful lessons of the past school year. As they prepare for a community fair to showcase their work, Lily invites families to share their own stories of resilience and vulnerability, fostering deeper connections within the town. Through its exploration of emotional honesty and interpersonal relationships, the story celebrates the journey of healing and connection that unites people in their beautifully messy lives. "It's Okay to Not Be Okay" ultimately reminds readers that acknowledging one's feelings and fostering supportive communities can lead to profound growth and an unwavering belief in the strength of shared experiences. In embracing vulnerability, Lily and her students discover not only the power of their voices but the profound connections that make life richer and more meaningful.
About the author
Mary Bornhoft is an accomplished mother and wife known for always giving back. Born and raised in Council Bluffs, Iowa, she cultivated a love for storytelling and creativity from an early age, influenced by many authors. Drawing inspiration from her own experiences, Mary strives to weave profound themes of resilience, emotion, community, and more into engaging narratives. In 2024, she launched "It's Okay to Not be Okay." Currently, Mary is working on her first book, starting an online store, and pursuing her bachelor's in psychology. When she isn't writing, Mary enjoys reading and spending time with her family and dogs, often finding inspiration in the everyday moments that make life beautifully messy. Mary lives in Omaha, Nebraska, with her husband, two dogs, and children, and she is excited to connect with readers on this journey of discovery and expression.