It's Not You Sis

This book contains real life events, concerning men living the "downlow" lifestyle. The majority of the women who have fallen victim to this life, have experience many of the same inconsistent behaviors from their men. These men tend to be emotionally unbalanced. The mood swings, the promiscuous behavior, the need to be around "their boys" at all times, have been consistently noted. I'm not saying that it's the same case for all men. I'm just saying that, the patterns and behaviors are like dejavu. You'd think that these women share the same man.

As we all may have noticed, the majority of our very creative men are openly gay. Some of the greatest designers, artists, makeup artists, creative directors, hair stylists and wardrobe stylists are openly gay men. After reading this book, ask yourself, "Are they so amazingly creative because they are true to themselves? Is there a chance that you could be happier, if you stop living your lie?" With the truth, everybody wins.

Lela is a woman who loves God. Because of her love for God, she loves people for who they are, no matter what their race, beliefs or their sexual preferences are. After watching a number of women be emotionally and physically abused by men, who are "trapped in the closet," she felt the need to write this book. Her number one goal is to educate and possibly save an innocent life or two. Who knows, this book may free an individual who is "trapped."