Belonging

Belonging: Digging Up Roots to Find My Place is a powerful and introspective exploration of family, identity, and self-discovery. Set against the backdrop of an Italian American family in the Bronx, this book unearths the deep-rooted traditions and unspoken tensions that shape the author's understanding of belonging. It's a journey that begins with the weight of inherited stories, expectations, and the pressure to fit into a predefined role, but ultimately leads to a transformative realization of what it means to become one's true self. In a family steeped in old-world customs, where loyalty and cultural pride run deep, the author navigates the complexities of growing up within a heritage that feels both comforting and confining. The story delves into the challenges of reconciling the past with the future, as the author learns that belonging is not an automatic given—it is something that must be discovered, fought for, and often redefined. Through the lens of childhood in the Bronx, the book explores the complex relationships between family members, particularly with a father who struggles with bipolar disorder and a mother whose fragility underscores the emotional instability of the home. Amid these tensions, the author's quest for identity and a sense of home takes shape, leading them to question how to carve out a place in the world that reflects her true self. Belonging is not just a story of searching for one's place it's also about the journey of becoming. It is a reflection on breaking cycles, finding a voice, and stepping into the fullness of one's own life. It speaks to anyone who has ever stood at the edges, wondering where they fit in the world, and to those who have realized that belonging isn't about where you come from, but where you choose to stand. This book is a mixture of lyrical stories and poems. The stories and poems are for anyone who has grappled with family, culture, and self-love. It serves as a reminder that while our roots shape us, it is up to us to define who we become. Belonging is a journey of transformation, of healing, and of ultimately discovering the power in becoming who we were always meant to be.