"You are a miracle to be alive," the doctor said, as he wheeled Charles McLellan into surgery, "and you were put there to save lives." Serving as the Program Director of the Wellness and Recovery Center North, Charles McLellan survived a horrific knife attack that claimed the lives of two of his colleagues. His mindfulness practice, honed throughout his life and numerous challenges, including addiction and serving time in prison, saved him in ways that astonished him during his darkest hour. Above all, it revealed the capacity of courage in the face of adversity and an inner strength we never knew existed, even when we think all hope is lost. No sooner had McLellan recovered from the attack than he was diagnosed with terminal stage 4 cancer, and his journey, harrowing and enlightening, has revealed both the essence of who he is and what we all can be at our best—resilient, strong, and boundlessly capable of love and gratitude. In Be Cool to Yourself, McLellan guides readers on their own journeys to healing, well-being, and cultivating inner strength through mindfulness. Combining hard-won insights into healing and trauma-informed mindfulness practices, he provides daily mindfulness practices to learn to love oneself, love others, and utilize the best of the human spirit. Be Cool to Yourself is a testament to the resilience that lies inside of every one of us, even when we face the unimaginable.
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Be Cool to Yourself: A Mindfulness Guide for Survivors is a steady, compassionate, heartfelt blend of memoir and practical mindfulness program guide. Drawing from a lived journey through prison, recovery, a life-altering workplace attack, PTSD, and a terminal cancer diagnosis, Charles McLellan (with Mattie John Bamman) offers ten practical “Foundation Steps” that help you build self-awareness, resilience, and a kinder relationship with yourself—one moment at a time. Through a simple daily routine and ten “Foundation Steps,” readers learn how to work with stress and triggers, build body awareness, use the STOP/STOPP practices to create space, reconnect with gratitude and compassion, and craft a self-care plan that can evolve with real life. This is a guide for anyone navigating trauma, illness, or daily stress—an invitation to return to the present moment, tap into inner strengths, and remember, again and again, to be kind and gentle with yourself. With grounded reflections, clear practices, and a focus on anchors like breath, gratitude, and connection, this book meets survivors where they are and invites them to create a daily mindfulness routine that supports real-life healing. Above all, it’s a reminder to make a commitment to yourself. You are stronger than you think—and you deserve to be cool to yourself.
Book details
- Genre:self-help
- Sub-genre:Self-Management / Stress Management
- Language:English
- Pages:272
- eBook ISBN:9798317829490
- Paperback ISBN:9798317829483