About the author
Born in October 1976, Cal Aris began his life's journey. It has been one consisting of successful endeavors in the music industry, higher education, healthcare, and love. All of which created the foundation for him to become a renowned coach and author on the subject of men's dating behaviors.
Cal's music and entertainment industry exploits began in Miami in the late 1990s. Signed to WEA Music and Mega Music of Miami, he worked as a DJ, concert promoter, club and stage manager on the scene. With a growing reputation and increased demand for his talents, Cal moved to New Orleans in 2000. Even though music and entertainment were his focus during that time, they also provided the context for him to observe, garner insights, and collect data on dating conduct.
In 2003, Cal was admitted to a New York City Healthcare Technician Education program and completed the program at the Bellevue Hospital. For the next 10 years, he continued to work in hospitals and clinics while going to three different schools at night: New York University (NYU), Manhattan College, and Iona College.
In 2008, Cal received the Shimkin Award from NYU for having a consecutive GPA of 3.86. He graduated Summa Cum Laude with a Bachelor of Science in Organizational Management from Manhattan College, and earned his MBA in Accounting and International Business from Iona College.
In addition to completing his formal education, he consecutively gained more wisdom about the hardships of the dating world. Because he worked in a healthcare environment, Cal had the opportunity to speak to hundreds of people daily, many of whom shared their love stories, and dating disappointments with him.
In 2010, Cal became a part-time Dating Coach. His interest in teaching others was sparked by his mother, who spent 32 years as an elementary school teacher educating children. He does not follow the dating philosophies or strategies of other coaches or matchmakers. He has his own school of thought which he calls "Men Rescue."
In his practice, Cal noticed correlating patterns between what men struggled with in dating with the reasons why women left relationships. He later coined this "The Dating Cycle Between Men & Women".
In accordance with his observations, Cal developed a code called "Dating Philosophy and Principles" which he now uses to coach men in the U.S and internationally.
One of the biggest proponents of Cal's date coaching work was his father, Chal. A professor of anatomy and anthropology, Chal was the first person to call Cal a "Dating Master Mind" at the age of 21. He gave Cal the moniker after witnessing his son's ability to connect with women firsthand. He even urged Cal to write a book, sharing his dating philosophy and principles with the rest of the world. After Chal's passing in 2019, Cal began compiling his years of research and knowledge on the subject to write this book, Men Rescue.
"Men Rescue" was born with the sole purpose of bringing the same happiness he has experienced with love and family into other people's lives. It is his personal mission to restore the confidence of any man who is alone in the world, with no life-partner, for simply not having good dating skills or proper dating etiquette.
Today, Cal Aris coaches online and travels the U.S to assist men in need. He believes helping people find happiness is his one true calling and finds inspiration in masters of philosophy, literature, psychology, and God's love.