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Book details
  • Genre:SELF-HELP
  • SubGenre:Personal Growth / Happiness
  • Language:English
  • Pages:840
  • Format:Hardcover
  • Hardcover ISBN:9780578491448

Final Freedom

by Ross Anderson

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Each of is born into the world as an empty vessel, only beholden to our DNA. From the moment of birth we begin to acquire beliefs about ourselves, our environment, culture, religion, human interactions and all else, and, not knowing any better, we come to establish all we've been exposed to and absorbed as "core beliefs." These are impressed upon us by cultural hypnosis, by inculcation and by rote. The beliefs we have about ourselves, about others and about life permeate everything we do. We absorb, by learning, inculcation and by rote, all or most of these beliefs as absolute truth and are destined to live out our lives in subservience to these beliefs, not according to the truth. A truth may be that there is a river running through town and a belief may be that you may fall-in and can't swim. This can be a lifelong belief. It is so easily cast aside by taking swimming lessons and becoming an adept swimmer, jumping in creeks and then taking the risk to jump into the river. This is the path to allaying your beliefs about your personal abilities in water and about the dangers of jumping into the river. In this case the TRUTH is the absolute opposite of your beliefs. When you surrender and give up the beliefs that you MUST have something or someone you may discover that you can have everything and everyone. This is learning to love life and people, NOT beliefs and images. This is what real living is all about and many people never allow themselves to experience it because they are so preoccupied with all of the "rainstorms" in their lives. What might happen if you give up your beliefs about exactly how conditions in your life have to be before you will LET YOURSELF EXPERIENCE HAPPINESS? It is you, yourself, who can create happiness even in the midst of conflict and despair. Sometimes the conditions WE FIND OURSELVES IN seem to preclude happiness, and the immediate "evidence" may seem so real and true. Sometimes the conditions WE CREATE FOR OURSELVES see
MANY PEOPLE WANT TO HEAR THE TRUTH BUT ONLY THE TRUTH THEY WANT TO HEAR. Some of our "long-held" or "closely-held beliefs," particularly about ourselves and about what we can and can't do, can and can't think or research and can or can't change are the most debilitating to us. Many people PREFER A KNOWN EVIL TO AN UNKNOWN JOY and are fearful of any change in the status-quo. An alcoholic or abusive mate may be terrible to live with but, at least, it is a known quantity. If a person takes a risk and exits the relationship, they may then find someone who is abusive and alcoholic "who will play the game their way" and recreate another "known evil" rather than explore a true "unknown joy." Such is the debilitating adherence to "known evils" or all kinds. Many people "try" to change their lives, in any way, for a month or two, but drift back to the comfortable, debilitating, destructive job, relationship, BELIEF ABOUT THEMSELVES and all else. Many people prefer known evils to unknown joys. There is an uncomfortable truth which is that "HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE." Commiserating with others and repeating the accumulated stories about "how it wasn't your fault" and "what he did and said" et al, leave no way to exit the precise condition which poisons your life. And, HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE. If you are so centered on your weakness, powerlessness and inabilities to create your own life as you want it, then this "hurt" you feel becomes your center, negating the truth that it is you yourself who must heal yourself. Otherwise your HURT will emanate from you and can only HURT others, not assist them along their path to joy and fulfillment. If you surround yourself with other "hurt" people and rehash your enhanced victim stories with each other, where is the only possible place you are "going to?" You are going to where you are coming from and will continue to live in this sea of poison. How can you possibly experience happiness and a new, fresh life, a whole new creation, if surrounded by these people? They must heal themselves. Are you going to sacrifice your life just to preserve a debilitating relationship with someone who cannot better your own human experience? This is the only life you have. It is not a dress rehearsal. There is no other time than right now to make an absolute personal commitment to leave the past behind and to CREATE A NEW REALITY FOR YOURSELF. You can create this new reality, your new life, by understanding the nature of commitments. There are no small or large commitments, there are only commitments. You either do what you say you'll do or you don't. There is nothing else. If a person says that they are going to find more rewarding work today, if that is a true personal commitment, then THAT DECISION IS ALREADY MADE AND NEED NEVER BE ADDRESSED AGAIN. It is a done deal, a fait accompli, finis and final. Anything else is not a commitment; it may be a wish or a hope but IT IS NOT A FINAL DECISION. If a person is addicted to gambling and realizes that it is consuming and destroying their life it will do them no good if they "promise themselves or others" that they won't gamble again. THE ONLY THING THAT COUNTS IS RESULTS, PERIOD. Wishes, hopes, what we worked so hard for and devoted so much time and effort to, prayed for, dreamed about and all else counts for nothing. The only thing which counts is results. So, understanding this, the real instigator of change is TO ACTUALLY MAKE A DECISION, ONE TIME, A PERSONAL COMMITMENT, FINIS, A FAIT ACCOMPLI.....A DECISION. Once a decision is made it need never be made again. If a person makes a real commitment to cease gambling, that commitment never needs to be made again. It is done and done. So, how does a personal know if they've made this real decision and commitment. They will get and stay away from gambling and people who gamble. Don't even think of it. Run away! No contact, reborn. Resurrected into a new life. This is FINAL FREEDOM.
About the author

If you had your choice of everything you can be and do in your life, your family, the way you live and think and if you "believe" that you can create this new person, perhaps with guidance, would you do it?

That challenge for you, your Final Freedom, is not as distant as you think.  Through a process of thoughtfully reading this book, doing the exercises and, maybe just for a week or two, giving up all of the beliefs stored in your mind [and there is a way out] you might discover that life is a lot more than it seems to be and also a lot less than it seems to be.  Actually life just is and you can live it with a fullness of the human experience, with responsibility, power, sharing and creation if you'll if you just make a decision to do it.

What would it be like if you lived your life, NOT according to your BELIEFS but according to the TRUTH.   What would it be like if you shared everything with everyone?  How would that feel?  How would you feel if you decided to LOVE EVERYONE, all of the time?  How would those people react to you?  

How would it be if you forgave everyone, for everything?   Imagine HOW that would affect all of your life, not just forgiving everyone today but BY BECOMING A FORGIVING PERSON. Transformation, and you can do it!  Making these decisions and commitments, and others shared throughout this book, and you can find yourself in a new life, maybe just enhanced, or a complete transformation of your human experience.

It's all up to you, you know, and you can begin this enlightenment right now if you'll just make the decision to do it.  You know that the easiest thing to do, what most people do, is to find something of great value but use the excuse that they'll do it in a few months.  That let's them off the hook because they actually are going to paint the barn, but not right now.  

There is fight or flight and also just doing nothing at all.  The status quo is always to do nothing and to just keep going along the ways things have been in your life.  And nothing will "change."  You actually must not let your new, refreshed, powerful, and cleared life be derailed for any reason.  If you will give it up when a "good reason" comes along, there are thousands of good reasons to not do anything, but you must push through.  This book contains processes for you to do by yourself or with others.  You may wonder what these processes and chapters can do for you, but they can affect you, so push on through, and have an open mind right from the start.  Today is the only day you've got!  I know you can do it; I've seen these transformations thousands of times in real life, and later-on as their progression has continued.  

You don't have anything to lose and a whole new life and world to gain.

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