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  • Genre:family & relationships
  • Sub-genre:Death, Grief, Bereavement
  • Language:English
  • Pages:296
  • Paperback ISBN:9798317834692

98.6 Mortality Movies to See Before You Die

Remarkable Films and TV Shows to Discuss Death and Plan Ahead

By Gail Rubin, CT

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Overview


What can movies teach us about death... and how to live fully until we die? 98.6 Mortality Movies to See Before You Die curates 142 remarkable films and television programs that explore mortality across genres, cultures, and perspectives. From drama and comedy to documentary and fantasy, each selection illuminates key themes about dying, grief, legacy, and planning ahead. Every entry includes core mortality insights and six thoughtful discussion prompts, making this book ideal for individuals, families, educators, Death Cafés, funeral professionals, faith communities, and healthcare organizations. The book also supports Mortality Movie Nights, an innovative outreach model that helps organizations invite the public into meaningful conversations about death, grief, and end-of-life planning in an engaging, accessible way. Because sometimes the easiest way to talk about death… is to start with a movie.
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Description


What if the most important conversation of your life started with a movie night? Movies and television shows can open conversations about death in ways that lectures and pamphlets simply can't. Sometimes it's easier to explore mortality when it's unfolding on a screen, preferably with popcorn in hand. 98.6 Mortality Movies to See Before You Die curates 142 remarkable films and television programs that explore dying, grief, legacy, love, and what it truly means to live fully. Across genres and cultures, from comedy and drama to documentary and animation, these stories invite us to face the inevitable with honesty, insight, and even a little humor. Each entry highlights key mortality themes and includes six thoughtful discussion prompts, transforming movie night into something far more meaningful than entertainment. Whether you're watching alone, with family, or hosting a community event, this guide helps turn cinematic moments into conversations that matter. Perfect for: • Educators • Clergy and faith communities • Funeral professionals • Hospice and healthcare providers • Death Cafés and community groups • Families finally ready to start "the conversation" Chapters are grouped by engaging themes such as: • Funerals and Funeral Directors • Medical Treatment and End-of-Life Issues • Afterlife Visions • Grief and Growth • Mortality and Living Fully • Estate Planning • Documentaries, animated films, and television series The book also supports Mortality Movie Nights, an innovative outreach model that helps organizations invite the public into their spaces for engaging, accessible conversations about death, grief, and planning ahead. It turns "Let's watch a movie" into "Let's talk about what really matters." People often remember a powerful film scene far longer than an expert's carefully crafted advice. By combining pop culture with death education, this guide makes advance care planning and end-of-life discussions approachable, understandable, and actionable. Because facing mortality doesn't have to be gloomy. It can be enlightening. Meaningful. Even life-affirming. Talking about death won't kill you. But avoiding the conversation just might rob you of peace. Pull up a chair. Start the movie. And begin the conversation that ultimately helps us live, and eventually leave, with intention, clarity, and heart.
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About The Author


Gail Rubin, CT, widely known as The Doyenne of Death®, is an internationally recognized death educator, speaker, author, and film curator who has made it her life's work to help people talk about the one thing they're most likely to avoid: death. With warmth, wit, and a deep respect for human stories, Gail uses humor, popular culture, and movies to transform uncomfortable end-of-life conversations into meaningful, even enjoyable, discussions. She is the award-winning author of A Good Goodbye: Funeral Planning for Those Who Don't Plan to Die, Kicking the Bucket List: 100 Downsizing and Organizing Things to Do Before You Die, Hail and Farewell: Cremation Ceremonies, Templates and Tips, The Before I Die Festival in a Box, and 98.6 Mortality Movies to See Before You Die. Her books blend practical guidance with compassion, empowering readers to plan ahead, reduce stress on loved ones, and live more intentionally, because contemplating mortality tends to sharpen one's appreciation for life. Gail is the coordinator of the award-winning Before I Die New Mexico Festival, an annual community event that brings together professionals and the public to explore death-related topics through workshops, conversations, art, and education. She is also a pioneer of the Death Cafe movement in the United States, helping normalize open, judgment-free conversations about death long before it became a cultural trend. She also created the Newly-Dead® Game, which tests couples on how well they know each other's last wishes. A Certified Thanatologist (CT), Gail is trained in death, grief, and bereavement education and is known for her engaging speaking style that combines expert knowledge with humor and humanity. She frequently uses films as conversation starters, hosting the Mortality Movies TV series and Mortality Movie Night events where audiences explore themes of mortality, loss, and legacy, often laughing, sometimes crying, and always thinking a little deeper by the end. Her ideas have reached a global audience through TEDx talks, including her 2015 TEDx presentation on the importance of starting end-of-life conversations before a death occurs and her 2025 TEDxABQ talk addressing medical aid in dying. In recognition of her leadership and impact, Albuquerque Business First named her one of their Women of Influence in 2019. Gail's professional affiliations include the Association for Death Education and Counseling, which honored her with the 2024 Community Educator Award, as well as the International Cemetery, Cremation and Funeral Association, Toastmasters International, and the National Speakers Association. Her personal mission is summed up in her signature motto: "Talking about sex won't make you pregnant. Talking about funerals won't make you dead." Through her writing, speaking, films, and festivals, Gail Rubin continues to help people face mortality with curiosity, courage, and a sense of humor, one conversation (and one movie) at a time. Learn more at www.AGoodGoodbye.com.
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