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你是不是不知道如何才能让你的伴侣开心，或者想知道他们心中的真实想法是什么？你不知道为什么他们会为一些小事如此生气。所以你会认为：既然我永远不可能让伴侣感到开心，那么为什么还要尝试去取悦他们呢？ 这里有一个小测试：你若是惹伴侣生气了，对方进了卧室并锁上门。你该怎么办呢？ A.不敲门，冷暴力处理。 B.敲门道歉。 如果你选择了A，请继续看下去吧。 如果你选择B，敲门道歉。即使你没有错！既然你确信自己是对的，为什么还要道歉呢？答案很简单：你在为与伴侣的想法不一致而道歉。不道歉，你将一个人在房间里痛苦；道歉，你就能与对方重新开始交谈，互相体谅，建立健康快乐的伴侣关系并过上幸福的生活。这本书讲的就是如何创造快乐幸福的生活。 在书中挖掘你对幸福的四个需求，同时了解你的伴侣对幸福的四大需求。通过四种错误的关系处理，伴侣经历的四个阶段，以及你从未学过的四门课程来了解关系是如何逐渐变质的。清晨醒来，请准备好16个日常工具来修复对健康关系至关重要的四大支柱。 通过这本书中对亲密关系的洞察和建议，单身人士面对新的人际关系可以更加得心应手的让朋友开心。现在是时候抛开关系中的绊脚石。无论你是想改善目前的关系还是想要重新开始一段关系，这本书都可帮助你修正处理关系的方式。

It's a book on building trust back into a partnership.. I'm a big believer in HOPE.. and fighting for what you want.. mistakes - they just happen.. It's the fight to correct the mistake, that always wins. The book begs to ask: Do you think you make the right choices when it comes to living and working with your partner? Are you clueless about what makes your partner happy? Have no idea why they get so mad over those little things, to the point that you think there's no way you can ever make your partner happy... so why even try? The book teaches you to always be on the same page with your partner. This book is all about living a fun and happy life and getting your partner's trust back. The book will teach you how to remove stress from your partner's life. When pressure is removed, then and only then can you have what you want in life—a life where you feel you have it all. You'll learn why your relationship got so bad through the four mistakes you made. You will learn about your partner's four needs for happiness. You will learn the four lessons you were never taught to be a better partner. But more importantly, there are 32 tools to fix the partnership. When it comes to trust issues, the tool that will start to heal a relationship is the "OPEN BOOK." Tool. This book is designed to fix your partnership by applying the tools provided.

关于作者 Jeff Marinelli 杰夫·马里内利 杰夫·马里内利(Jeff Marinelli)是一位对生活的心怀希望的作家、出版商、慈善家和企业家，也致力于帮助人们建立更良好的伴侣关系。 首先他自述自己并不是心理学家，仅是从个人和专业环境的丰富经验中受益匪浅，所以想分享他的见解。作为《艺术与生活》杂志的创始人和出版人，杰夫自2005年以来就将观众和有着丰富生活经验的创作者联系在一起。杰夫作为艺术和生活慈善基金会的创始人，通过引人入胜的体验活动，拉近学生与艺术的距离。作为首席执行官的伴侣，杰夫历经了公司生活的巨大压力，他知道伴侣关系要经历哪些考验，同时也知道如何让伴侣关系变得更强大。